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17 Kesalahan Pria Saat Jatuh Cinta

Menurut instruktur romansa pria dari Human System, Jet Veetlev, ada tiga fase dalam kehidupan cinta manusia, yaitu fase pra hubungan, fase hubungan dan pasca hubungan. Tindakan-tindakan yang biasa dilakukan pria ketika jatuh cinta harusnya adalah tindakan-tindakan di fase pra hubungan. Namun, budaya sekarang menunjukkan tindakan-tindakan pada fase hubunganlah yang dilakukan dalam fase PDKT (pra hubungan).

Jet menuturkan 17 tindakan "yang dianggap permainan" yang tidak pada tempatnya dilakukan pria dalam PDKT.

1. SMS si cewek berlebihan. Kalau tidak tiga kali sehari, ya tujuh kali sehari. Jika tidak dibalas, cowok biasanya berulang kali mengecek folder sent items, atau mengirimkan kembali SMS kepada si cewek untuk bertanya apakah dia telah menerima SMS kita tadi.

2 Menyogok si cewek dengan terus berusaha mengajak makan malam, membelikan ini itu bahkan yang tergolong mahal.

3.Rela menunggu jarum jam menunjuk ke angka 12 ketika pada malam ulang tahunnya, supaya menjadi orang pertama yang mengucapkan selamat.

4.Menjadi (sok) romantis dan sangat melankolis, seperti memberi bunga menuliskan puisi dan mendengarkan lagu-lagu mellow.

5.Super perhatian

6.Berupaya menyiapkan segala sesuatu yang super spesial, yang cowok lain tak pernah lakukan, seperti menyiapkan sebuah CD yang berisi lagu-lagu kesukaannya atau membelikan boneka yang dia suka.

7.Menjadi Yes Man, sulit berkata tidak ke cewek tersebut.

8.Berani (nekat) membatalkan kegiatan dengan teman-teman nongkrong bahkan keluarga sendiri untuk menemani gebetan/pacar dalam kegiatannya.

9.Curhat tak berhenti.

10.Terlalu banyak berpikir hingga sering berpikir negatif terhadap diri sendiri, apalagi jika si cewek tak membalas SMS kita.

11.Berusaha menyukai dan melakukan kegiatan dan kesukaan si cewek, bahkan rela meninggalkan kebiasaan demi kemauan si cewek. "Misalnya meninggalkan hobi olahraga atau grup band kita atas permintaan dia," ujar Jet.

12.Menjadi terlalu sopan, baik cara duduk, cara makan, penggunaan bahasa sehari-hari, dan nada suara di telpon. Intinya, jaim! Kita tidak menjadi diri kita sendiri.

13.Menjadi super gentleman.

14.Ngebadut, membiarkan diri menjadi bahan lelucon.

15.Cari tahu soal kesukaan dan kepribadian si cewek dari teman dekat atau anggota keluarganya.

16.Merancang games 'Kakak-Adik'. Menempatkan diri sebagai kakak dan si cewek sebagai adik. Padahal bukan jaminan, hati si cewek akan terpaut pada kita.

17.Takut terlihat mengejar cewek lain.

Jet mengatakan 17 permainan ini tidak tepat, karena bagaimanapun cewek menyukai keromantisan, cewek menaruh perhatiannya kepada seorang pria dengan kepribadian yang disukainya. "Bukan dengan tindakan-tindakan romantismu," ujar Jet.
Sumber: Kompas

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